What kills sexual desire of a man?

In this article , Alejandra Godoy Haeberle, a clinical psychologist and author of "I love you, but I do not want. An epidemic of the century ", explains that the intensity of sexual desire changes not only from one person to another but in one person changes over time.

Having sex is one of the pleasures that seeks to experience again and again by all the emotions that are generated in the body, although this assertion fit some exceptions.

These are related to changes that have to do with  age , psychological and physical condition, the stage of life that is, the level of  attraction  by the couple, the  failures  employment or  economic , the use of  drugs , the diseases,  routine  and lack of communication, among others.

Why the desire to end?

Godoy Haeberle  considered to be  related  to talk about what is considered normal to the  frequency  to sustain  sex , however, a good indicator would be two to three times a week, when this  parameter  is less then there is a problem of  libido .

Therefore, we have listed five reasons that psychologists say eventually kill the  sex drive  of a man :

1.Fear

Alejandra Godoy  says that this emotion inhibits sexual appetite . One has to completely surrender to this fear which is fully based on emotion. It ensures that this fear covers three important aspects in any relationship:  love ,  sexual passion  and  commitment .

2 Drugs

Godoy Haeberle clinical psychologist  believes that the use of  drugs  or  drugs  has response the  inhibition  persistent of  libido  blocking  sexual desire ; This is reflected in the  lack of interest  to initiate or respond to  stimulation  erotic .

3 Routine

Esther Perel , a psychotherapist author of  erotic intelligence says that to keep the  passion  in the couple is necessary to awaken the  emotion  accompanied by  uncertainty  and  excitement  for having the unknown. This idea contrasts with  sex  domestic , ie, when the  routine  takes over the  relationship .

4. Obesity

One of the consequences of  overweight  is that makes someone feel low self - esteem , which ends up affecting the  libido  and the  quality  of their  sex , fact that finds an investigation of  Duke University, United States , which states that  68%  of people with  overweight  do not feel  sexually attractive .

5.Review.

The psychologist Kevin Leman , author of  "Sex Begins in the Kitchen"  explains that  criticize  constantly the  couple  is a  destructive action , even if you consider comments that are  constructive , just with all  desire  of a man.

To keep the  eroticism  under certain circumstances it is advisable to try to resume  activities  they used to do in their  first dates , change of scenery, strengthen  communication , to change clothes and physical appearance as hair color.

This benefits to give  new  stages  to the  relationship  and thus arouse interest among the couple .